Learning to Forgive from Joseph
Joseph learned to forgive betrayal, jealousy, envy, being sold into slavery, and the desire of his brothers to murder him.
Joseph’s brothers were so jealous of him it consumed them. Their envy caused them to betray their brother, contemplate murdering him, throw him in a pit, and then get rid of him by selling him into slavery.
Somehow, Joseph’s faith in God and His plan carried him through it all. Joseph maintained a great attitude. There is no mention of his anger, his rage, his attempted escapes only his ability to gain the confidence of everyone around him.
Joseph was obviously deeply hurt. He missed his family. He had to learn a new language, adapt to a new culture, and survive where the majority would have become victims. Jospeh gained victory over all his circumstances.
Somehow Jospeh kept his eyes on the dreams and promises that God had given him. He did not allow himself to be swayed. He never quit.
Instead of seeking vengeance because of bitterness that he harbored in his heart, Joseph saw beyond the offenses, beyond his offenders, to the omnipotent God who was orchestrating events for a higher purpose.
Setting his affection on things above, looking up, setting his eyes on Jesus gave Jospeh the victory. Joseph forgave his brothers all the wrongs they had done. He knew they had meant it for evil, but Joseph could see that God had a bigger plan. Genesis 50:20.
There is no denying the pain, the wounds, or the scars that Joseph carried. Instead, we see that the doesn’t dwell on past hurts. He is not seeking retribution. Joseph chose reconciliation and restoration.
Forgiveness is not contingent on the actions of others, but a choice rooted in faith and obedience to God. When we release the bitterness, the resentment, we open ourselves up for God to heal and restore broken relationships.
No doubt we encounter betrayal, hurt, and injustice, but we can trust that God is at work and will work all things together for good. Romans 8:28.
Freedom and healing come when we give up our grievances and extend grace.
Forgiveness is not a transaction between individuals, but a reflection of our relationship with the God of forgiveness.